Theres nothing wrong with feeling an attraction to another person when youre in a relationship. Having a crush on someone other than your partner while youre in a relationship is totally normal. And it doesnt mean youre a shady girlfriend or a bad husband, or that your relationship is on the rocks.
Is it cheating if you are attracted to someone else?
Taking action on emotional (ie sexual attraction) feelings towards the other someone, to create a dating prospect out of them — even if thats not your Exact aim specifically — is cheating, yes. You dont have to physically engage sexually with someone else to cheat.
Is it normal to think about dating someone else while in a relationship?
Its perfectly normal to still fancy other people, even when you are in a happy relationship,” he explains. “You can be in a relationship with someone and still appreciate a good looking person when you see them. A little fantasy here or there is healthy as long as thats all it is.”